The Gift of Family History
Beri Kaplan Schwitzer, President, Dallas Genealogical Society
Family history is more than names and dates—it’s the story of resilience, love, and identity that shapes who we are. Sharing these stories with children and grandchildren is one of the most meaningful gifts you can give. It connects them to their roots, strengthens family bonds, and helps them understand the values that guided generations before them.
Children thrive on stories. When they hear about ancestors who immigrated to a new country, built businesses from scratch, or kept traditions alive, they learn that perseverance and courage run in their veins. These stories become touchstones, reminding them they are part of something bigger than themselves.
Research shows that children who know their family history tend to have higher self-esteem and greater resilience. They feel anchored, even when life gets uncertain. Sharing family history also opens doors to conversations about heritage, culture, and values—and it’s a chance to pass down recipes, songs, and customs that might otherwise be lost.
Start small:
- Tell a favorite childhood memory.
- Show old photographs.
- Cook a dish that’s been in the family for generations.
Encourage questions and let stories flow naturally. You don’t need to be a historian, just a storyteller with love for your family’s journey.
In the end, sharing family history isn’t about the past—it’s about shaping the future. By giving your loved ones the gift of connection, you help them carry forward a legacy of strength, identity, and belonging.
As members of the Dallas Genealogical Society, you have incredible resources at your fingertips—research tools, educational programs, and a community passionate about preserving family stories. Consider recording an oral history with a loved one, writing down a family recipe with its story, or using DGS workshops to learn new ways to document your heritage. Every effort you make today ensures that your family’s story will live on for generations to come.
